Group Life Conference – Session 2
Mark Batterson and Heather Zemple – Where Community Grow Best
I was lucky enough to connect with Heather on a panel we shared at the pre-conference session on community and social media. She is really as bright at Mark shared in the beginning of the talk. Here are some points from their discussion:
- Don’t confuse the outcome with the method
- There are a number of different ways to accomplish community
- EVERYTHING is an experiment (core value of National Community Church)
- We have to keep dreaming as leaders
- Use right brain imagination and left brain logic together
- Every small group should be viewed as a discipleship experiment (that gives you freedom to fail and not be afraid to try new things)
Ideas they tried at NCC:
- They use a tri-semester system 3 semesters for 8-12 weeks
- Have flexibility with your system so you can let other leaders who are resistant
- check out http://www.zonegathering.com/ – NCC’s leadership small group blog
- Mark Batterson’s Blog – http://www.evotional.com/
- Shout out to twitter: Here is mine – www.twitter.com/chiapperino
- Bad experiment: Rockband video game fundraiser – check the lyrics!!!
Maturity Does Not Equal Conformity
- Here is Heather’s Blog on this one, I am not even going to attempt to explain what she does best. Click here to read her post.
- empower your leaders to lead, maturity does not mean conformity, let people try new things!!!
- Think about small groups as a free market system, expect your leaders to get a vision from God and GO FOR IT!
- Oswald Chambers: Let God be as original with others, as he was with you.
Expect the Unexpected
- When a routine becomes routine, CHANGE IT
- Change of place = change of pace = change of perspective
- Jesus consistently change it up on his disciples. Heals on the sabbath, walks on water, throws down in the temple. A good leader has a good curve ball. Jesus had good curve balls.
- Unexpectedly appreciate your leaders by surprising them
We Need A Culture of Grace and Truth
- Truth: People want to hear it like it is
- Grace: love people when they least expect it and when they don’t deserve it
- People need grace and truth
I gotta visit NCC at some point.







Thanks, Frank. So good to meet you face to face today! Looking forward to seeing you in DC sometime soon.